Ok re-reading that several times, just to make sure I understand...
1. We need to find someone with a bolted sample to send them.
2. We need to figure out how many people in the group are manual vs auto, we know for sure the rears are different ratio's, and given the transfer case needs front and rear tire size to be within 1% I'd say that's hard evidence the front and rear are very likely the same ratio (not sure I've ever seen a transfer case that allows different front and rear diff ratio's).
From there, we need to figure out if everyone is willing to pay for new gears, even if they have a bolted diff, or else we don't have the 20 no matter what, but if we have 10 bolted diff's on the list they could still get an LSD made.
Then, once we know if the majority is auto or manual (likely auto) are enough members of the minority willing to switch out both their front and rear ratio's to get to 20?
To me it sounds like we REALLY need to figure out how to identify if a car has bolted or not by the VIN / build date or something similar. We also need people to state if they are manual or auto.
Obviously I'm manual as already stated.
Ok so from
http://www.realoem.com/bmw/enUS/showparts?id=VD53-USA-04-2008-E90-BMW-335xi&diagId=31_0718
So it seems the auto and manual have different part numbers, and look at "i" it shows 3.08 or 3.46, so we KNOW for sure auto and manual have different part numbers, and thus the ratios. This is for an E90 no LCI update. Note the E60 part numbers are the same.
The LCI update cars seem to have the same part numbers? But there's a comment on part numbers from build date 08/2009 for the auto transmission cars.
That starts to give some interesting hints that we might be able to tell welded vs not welded (and obviously gear ratio) by part numbers...