I'll be anxious to see what the DSC swap does, I'm banking on that being a key factor.
@LMB335is, still running with e-diff and other nannies disabled (just to rule them out)?
You can more or less throw an M around more with DTC fully on than you can a non-M with it "fully" off. It's much less intrusive, so I'm hoping it's just seeing off sensor inputs (or calculated outputs) and the non-M DSC is triggering reductions where they might fly under the radar on the M DSC.
I ordered connectors today since I had to grab some other stuff, but kinda slowed my pace with jumping on this until it's been verified things work smoothly without a diff swap.