OK so I've lowered the DME rev limiter to 5000 and it does hold gears in M so there is an RPM threshold in the TCU at play rather than just a flag. Boy there are a LOT of things it could be amongst the hundreds of maps.
So its a matter of trial and error at this point? I suppose you could systematically attack this by rounding up all the tables and making changes to 1/2 of them and trying to narrow down which ones make noticeable differences, assuming that wouldn't booger up other things. I'd like to think you could reduce it to a dozen flashes in stead of hundreds.