I think this is the main stuff:
* Oil pan gasket and bolt kit
11137548031 &
11132210959
* Rod bolts -
11247589671 (12x - 1 time use)
* Oil pump + windage tray bolt kit -
11410426472 (1 time use )
* O-ring for oil pickup tube -
11417527092
* Turbo oil drain o-rings -
11427563453 (2x)
* Power Steering pump bolts (I usually re-use these on the N55's I've worked on, but, N54s seem to have bolts back out on them so I would upgrade to the latest N55 part number 07129905738; they are made of different material)
* Green plasti-guage for .001-.003"
* Brake clean
* lint-free rags to clean with
* STD size rod bearings (assuming the crank and rods are still good)
Hope the main bearings are OK...
Newtis.info has everything you need instruction wise and torque specs. This is a time consuming job. Lot's of things to unbolt to get the pan off. Ends up being like $300 in materials to hopefully save an engine. Expect to have to swap the engine if the carnage is that bad. Cranks form stress cracks, journals get damaged, Cranks get warped, rods get stretched...