The n54 targets different temps for diff driving so it will run very hot cruising for better emissions and then when you turn up the wick it will drop temps so this is actually normal.I wouldn't say that's a good thing as the thermostat controls the temps not the radiator, all the radiator does is cools water.
If your having temp swings I'll be looking into water pump or thermostat that's not working correctly.
What you should be looking for in a radiator is extremely stable coolant temps that don't fluctuate from the pre-set temp either in the tune or thermostat.
The manual version with a separate tranny cooler should not have this issue as the dme should be able to control the temp I would think. The auto obviously has a design flaw.