I never pay someone with whom I don't know their reputation in some meaningful way. Unless I have recourse that isn't a pain in the butt. That rule has probably saved me lots of grief I've never seen. I think we know who the general set of people we'd "friends and family" money for something, that are on this forum at least.
But this is not cool - to take someone's money, BS them on shipping, then peace out.
Here's how to solve it. This guy lives in Kearny, NJ. His Paypal is
[email protected]. That domain is gone - but they run a bakery, which is now almost certainly
www.pechtersbread.com 856-786-8000. Same guy - Kearny is next town over (<2 miles) from Cinnaminson where Pechter's Bread does business. I'd make a phone call and get him on the horn. Good luck.
Filippo