Key is to crank the shift speed if not reducing torque as much it all has to do with that jerk when your body moves forward then it hits again like someone who can't shift. You have to remember they are related so the faster you have shifts set the more torque reduction so then you have to reduce that . I bet if you slow shifts down all the way and then leave torque reduction at 0 it will feel fine. I dont keep like that cause I didnt spend fortune on a pd trans to not feel that kick lol
Shift speeds only applicable when in manual mode. Unless you know something I don't know. I almost never use manual mode and when I do, there's no issues with shift speeds anyhow.